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10 Signs You Are Settling For a Miserable Marriage

Popsugar logoPopsugar 04/10/2017 Laura L Hernandez
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You don't go around announcing it, but people can tell your marriage . . . sucks. You alternate between hiding how bad it is by making everything look "Facebook perfect" and revealing to friends just how frustrated you are. Sometimes you think that maybe it's just how marriage is. Sometimes you wonder if maybe your expectations are too high. Either way, it's clear from the outside that you are settling for a miserable marriage, thanks to these 10 signs.

The two of you act differently around others.

The two of you act differently around others. © StockSnap/ William Stitt The two of you act differently around others. You cover up the unhappiness and try to make it look like "business as usual," but both of you are thinking that things are just not good at all! 

Your partner is giving you crumbs of love . . . or vice versa.

Your partner is giving you crumbs of love . . . or vice versa. © StockSnap/ Evan McDougall Your partner is giving you crumbs of love . . . or vice versa.

These crumbs of love aren't enough, and you or your partner constantly feels as if something is missing . . . as if either one of you has to beg for affection and love.

You are making up and breaking up like it's in the job description.

You are making up and breaking up like it's in the job description. © StockSnap/Christiana Rivers You are making up and breaking up like it's in the job description.

The two of you threaten divorce and then make up more times than either of you can count. It's more dramatic than a soap opera!

Most of your time is spent wondering if all marriages are like this.

Most of your time is spent wondering if all marriages are like this. © StockSnap/bardia hashemirad Most of your time is spent wondering if all marriages are like this.

If you're really wondering if your marriage is normal . . . well, perhaps it's not! If you spend a lot of time comparing your marriage to others, not only is that a bad habit to get into and destructive, but it may also be because you're so unhappy and don't understand why.

You live parallel lives, frequently venturing off alone.

You live parallel lives, frequently venturing off alone. © StockSnap/ Alexandr Baranets You live parallel lives, frequently venturing off alone.

If the two of you aren't spending any time together and your existences run parallel, your marriage is most likely miserable.

One sign of a miserable marriage? Always waiting for your partner.

One sign of a miserable marriage? Always waiting for your partner. © StockSnap/William Stitt One sign of a miserable marriage? Always waiting for your partner.

Whether it's literally waiting for your spouse to show up or metaphorically waiting on your partner hand and foot, you're not in a happy marriage.

The bedroom is quiet.

The bedroom is quiet. © StockSnap/ Tirachard Kumtanom The bedroom is quiet.

You and your spouse rarely have sex. So rarely, in fact, that you are starting to feel very lonely. And unwanted.

You make so many wishes: wishing it were better . . . wishing he or she were different.

You make so many wishes: wishing it were better . . . wishing he or she were different. © StockSnap/ Alexandr Baranets You make so many wishes: wishing it were better . . . wishing he or she were different.

You have a million regrets about your marriage. Instead of thinking about real-life strategies to make it better at this point, you just wish it were different, but you know it's not. You know deep inside that you are unhappily married.

You're happier when he or she is not around.

You're happier when he or she is not around. © StockSnap/Francesco Gallarotti You're happier when he or she is not around.

You live for alone time. You envision the future without your spouse but never say this to him or her. You feel single, even though you certainly aren't.

Your daily mood? Sad. Depressed. Distracted.

Your daily mood? Sad. Depressed. Distracted. © StockSnap/ Aidan Meyer Your daily mood? Sad. Depressed. Distracted.

Your friends and family hate seeing you this way. They notice how unhappy you are. People hate seeing you settle. Even you start to acknowledge your depressive state about your marriage, but you feel trapped and hopeless.

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