Princess Diana's Thoughtful Habit Is Something Everyone Should Do
HuffPost
8/14/2018
© Bettmann via Getty Images
A new study shows many people underestimate the value of a thank-you note, something Princess Diana made time to write in between her royal duties.
Princess Diana was known to embrace a habit many people today shrug off, but a new study shows you might want to reconsider.
In between fulfilling her royal duties as the Princess of Wales, Diana made time to write thank-you letters. In his authorized biography Diana: Her True Story, author Andrew Morton wrote about Diana’s determination to send thank-you cards, noting that after her royal wedding to Prince Charles in 1981 she “sat down to answer many of the 47,000 letters of congratulation and 10,000 gifts which the wedding generated,” with the help of extra staff.
© Cate Gillon via Getty Images
In 2008, memorabilia like this handwritten thank-you note from Princess Diana went to auction. Diana addressed this letter to William Tallon and Reginald Wilcock, who both assisted the royal family.
It turns out Diana understood the significance of a thank-you card much more than others do. According to a recent study, many people underestimate the value of a thank-you letter and how much happiness the recipient will get from it.
As explained by The New York Times in July, Amit Kumar, a professor at the University of Texas at Austin, and Nicholas Epley, a professor at the University of Chicago, had participants write a “gratitude letter” to someone who had an effect on them and gauge how much the recipient would like the letter on a happiness scale. Many of the recipients ranked their happiness as a 4 out of 5, while the senders typically assumed their happiness would only be a 3 on the scale.
Diane Gottsman, founder of the Protocol School of Texas and author of Modern Etiquette for a Better Life, noted that what stands out about a thank-you note compared with a text or email is the time that goes into the act.
“It’s a special touch,” she told HuffPost. “It’s going above and beyond what is generally expected and anticipated because it means that you’ve taken some extra steps.”
If you’re now feeling especially motivated to send a thank-you card to someone for a gift, for a favor or simply for their time, we have a few suggestions. Jacqueline Whitmore, etiquette expert and author of the book Poised for Success, told HuffPost in February that you shouldn’t be discouraged if you’re a bit delayed in sending out a note of appreciation.
“A late thank-you note is better than none at all,” she said.
Gottsman recommends using a tone that’s “warm and friendly” along with personal stationery for more of a signature look.
It won’t be from Kensington Palace, but it will still have an original touch.
Related: The 25 Most Iconic Princess Diana Looks [Provided by Vogue]
Meghan Markle's celebrity friends arrive at her baby shower
Career mistakes: How to recover from a misstep at work
Wedding trends 2019: Hottest in dresses, invitations, more
How Royals Announced Their Pregnancies, from Queen Elizabeth II to Meghan Markle
Report: Meghan Markle's Secret Baby Shower Will Take Place in New York City
Real math that you may not realize you are using daily
Online dating could affect how humans evolve in the future, biologists say
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry may send first child to an American school
6 creative clubs to start with your friends
Why The Princes Are Ditching Their Daytime Ties
This is what a Maori wedding in New Zealand looks like
Woman travels by bus with her sheet mask on
Adorable baby is afraid of vacuum cleaner and seeks protection behind dog
Things people who don't want kids always hear
3 quick ways to create a happier workplace
Can you find the four-leaf clover?
HuffPost
