'I'm not your chauffeur': Childish Husband Refuses To Help His Special Needs Wife Get To A Wedding Ceremony Because He Wasn't Invited Himself
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1/28/2023
We don't know who needs to hear this, but once you say 'I do' - you're no longer just thinking for yourself and acting for yourself - you now have a whole other person to think of and consider. Not to mention if you have kids - then that's a whole other story.
We recently stumbled upon the most unbelievable Reddit story. A husband decided to ask the people of Reddit whether he was an a$$hole for refusing to drive his disabled wife to their son's wedding ceremony. Why? You may wonder be wondering. Well, that's only because he, himself, was not invited to the party.
Let's just say the comment section was hot and spicy. People gave their personal outlooks and opinions but if you ask us - we think that marriage is about partnership and helping one another. If your significant other is asking you for help and you refuse out of spite - welp, that's really heartbreaking, actually.
But who are we to judge, have a look for yourself and let us know what you think!
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Font - Posted by u/Mryrc56 4 days ago AITA for not driving my wife to our son's wedding since I'm not invited?
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Human body - My son had his wedding days ago. We had some past issues that affected our relationship. No we're not on speaking terms after he decided to sell his grandmother's home (my wife's mother) instead of keeping it.
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Font - He sent his mom an invitation but didn't include me. I was fine with that, didn't try to fight back or anything. But however, I refused to drive my wife to the wedding. She's disabled and cannot drive and we live 3 hrs away. I said that since I'm not invited to the wedding, nor am I taking part in it then I shouldn't have to drive there. My wife told me I was being unreasonable and ghat I was punishing her for our son's decision but I told her it was on her to make travel arrangement sinc
![Font - Sufficient Hippo3541 4 days ago Partassipant [1] I love my partner but I'm not driving 6 hours plus waiting for him to attend an event I'm not invited to.](http://img-s-msn-com.akamaized.net/tenant/amp/entityid/AA16Q42b.img?h=131&w=300&m=6&q=60&o=f&l=f)
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Font - Sufficient Hippo3541 4 days ago Partassipant [1] I love my partner but I'm not driving 6 hours plus waiting for him to attend an event I'm not invited to.
![Font - holisarcasm 4 days ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [48] . Your partner isn't disabled and cannot drive. There are things you do when your partner cannot. I have driven and helped my partner when disabled. I have completely changed my life for partner at times due to extenuating circumstances and partner has done the same. We would have gone and gotten a hotel for the night and made a nice trip of it. That is what decent, respectful, adult partners do.](http://img-s-msn-com.akamaized.net/tenant/amp/entityid/AA16Qj8A.img?h=401&w=300&m=6&q=60&o=f&l=f)
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Font - holisarcasm 4 days ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [48] . Your partner isn't disabled and cannot drive. There are things you do when your partner cannot. I have driven and helped my partner when disabled. I have completely changed my life for partner at times due to extenuating circumstances and partner has done the same. We would have gone and gotten a hotel for the night and made a nice trip of it. That is what decent, respectful, adult partners do.
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Font - Topinambourg. 4 days ago It's his wife. You do things for the people you love. If he cannot be bothered to help his wife and make her happy, then there is a bigger problem.
![Font - Sufficient Hippo3541 4 days ago . Partassipant [1] His brother was easily able to take her. OPs wife is mad that her husband didn't take her, but it was possible for her to go. Partners compromise. How uncomfortable do you think it would be for the husband to drive to the wedding but be unable to enter when all his family is there. It's best he stayed home.](http://img-s-msn-com.akamaized.net/tenant/amp/entityid/AA16QnDa.img?h=412&w=300&m=6&q=60&o=f&l=f)
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Font - Sufficient Hippo3541 4 days ago . Partassipant [1] His brother was easily able to take her. OPs wife is mad that her husband didn't take her, but it was possible for her to go. Partners compromise. How uncomfortable do you think it would be for the husband to drive to the wedding but be unable to enter when all his family is there. It's best he stayed home.
![Font - fluffticles 4 days ago Partassipant [1] More importantly, MY PARTNER would not ask me to drive him 6 hours round trip with nothing to do in between. What are these garbage relationships?](http://img-s-msn-com.akamaized.net/tenant/amp/entityid/AA16QpIz.img?h=195&w=300&m=6&q=60&o=f&l=f)
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Font - fluffticles 4 days ago Partassipant [1] More importantly, MY PARTNER would not ask me to drive him 6 hours round trip with nothing to do in between. What are these garbage relationships?
![Font - Motor_Business483 4 days ago Pooperintendant [61] The wife is an adult. He is her partner, not her servant. HAving the brother take her was MUCH more reasonable.](http://img-s-msn-com.akamaized.net/tenant/amp/entityid/AA16Q9lq.img?h=306&w=300&m=6&q=60&o=f&l=f)
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Font - Motor_Business483 4 days ago Pooperintendant [61] The wife is an adult. He is her partner, not her servant. HAving the brother take her was MUCH more reasonable.
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Font - garbagefire1111. 4 days ago It's wildly unreasonable to expect your partner to drive you 3 hours, presumably wait around all day/night for the event they can't come to, then drive you 3 hours home instead of just arranging your own ride to the event only you are attending. Seriously insane expectations.
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Font - Topinambourg. 4 days ago I am not sure if you're being sarcastic. It's actually terrifying the number of people who think spending a day to help your partner in a unique day of their life is
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