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9 Clear Signs You’re in a Toxic Friendship

Reader's Digest.CA Logo By Stacey Feintuch of Reader's Digest.CA | Slide 1 of 9:  Are you hesitant to tell her about your new boyfriend? Hide the fact that you got a promotion, new house, or other good news? You may be covering up your happiness since your toxic friends are jealous, envious, competitive, or negative when you experience successes and accomplishments. 'Pay attention to those little nudges you get emotionally, the ones that make you pause before sharing good news with a friend,' says Cherie Burbach, author of Art and Faith: Mixed Media Art With a Faith-Filled Message, who specializes in relationships and helping people connect. 'If you hate to bring it up for fear she’ll put you down or make a snarky comment, then why would you want this person as a friend?' A good friend should be someone who can share in your excitement. Your relationship will suffer if you don’t have that level of open communication.

You keep good news to yourself

Are you hesitant to tell her about your new boyfriend? Hide the fact that you got a promotion, new house, or other good news? You may be covering up your happiness since your toxic friends are jealous, envious, competitive, or negative when you experience successes and accomplishments. 'Pay attention to those little nudges you get emotionally, the ones that make you pause before sharing good news with a friend,' says Cherie Burbach, author of Art and Faith: Mixed Media Art With a Faith-Filled Message, who specializes in relationships and helping people connect. 'If you hate to bring it up for fear she’ll put you down or make a snarky comment, then why would you want this person as a friend?' A good friend should be someone who can share in your excitement. Your relationship will suffer if you don’t have that level of open communication.

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